Coincidence is how we met

After the engagement, people has been asking me, "is he your college mate?",or,"how did u met him?", or something like "so..he also a teacher la?"-attempting a lucky guess but with no luck.

Usually i will answer "no....(with a continously long dot and smile and with some understandable wink in my eye)" to end the first question, or "he's working in private sector at Sepang" for question number three. But for question number two...erm how to answer or put it into words that will not sound like "i met him in cyberspace"? What? don't show me that unbelievable face..its not my fault.

i love him. Everything about him.

Everything started after my friend ask me to join her in a website since i just ended my 4 years old relationship. The website created specifically for people seriously looking for their soulmate, i repeat, seriously. But i am not so serious. I am joining it for my friend. Like i'm signing up for Friendster, Facebook, that is why i'm signing up for MyJodoh.com..for fun - not realising my future husband was waiting for me there.

Many friends of the opposite sex (men) want to know me after i uploaded my photo..Yes, the above photo. It looks motherly..lovely..and friendly -that's what they said. I dont blame them. I should have put the worst photo of me -the one with lots of pimples hahhaa just kidding. But it is not the photo that attracted Halim..yes his name was Halim. He click my name because of my username - Nor Sheila Binti Reslan - it shows honesty he said. I like.

Receiving an email from him, i notice something special in his introduction. Not so pushy and not sounded like "i'm here just for fun", his writings shows determination in the softer way - the way i like. Simply said, it might be the chemistry and the fate. I like this guy.

The relationship blooms like roses after the rain. Alhamdulillah.

The beginning . The meeting .

This is the starting point of my sweet wedding memorial...brides and grooms-to-be are advised to listen to this entri first and foremost...

U might say i'm crazy if i tell u that the first time i met him, the purpose is really towards a wedding..ya,i know i am crazy.But he also crazy and i am happy with that coz i am not alone.. Hahhahhaahh ;)

Okay, it was 3rd january of 2010..not so sunny,not so cloudy..i remembered it was one fine morning...he fetched me at my apartment. We went out to Jusco Bukit Tinggi. After some bite to eat, he called my parent. Ya..he call my parent on the first day we met. Asking permision from my dad about being serious with me. Convincing enough, i smiled. The photo above is our photo taken on our first date. No comment. ;)

A month and 3 days later... his family, he and I went back to my hometown for a merisik ceremony that turns out to be a meminang ceremony. and the wedding date has been decided, 4 month from now. Ya i know, i am becoming insane. But no worries, all of us are hahhhahhh ;).

And from that on..we started to prepare...and the preparation is never complete until today.